I know what it feels like to worry about what other people will think of me. I used to feel tremendous fear and anxiety during that phase of my life when I was facing a choice of either moving forward into the field of broadcast journalism or into the field I am in now and will be in for as long as I live.
Fear of what others will think has prevented many people I have spoken with from following their own truth. Instead, they held themselves back and remained unfulfilled inside.
Nobody can force you to make the positive changes you would like to make in your life. Nobody can make your choices for you. Did you ever stop to consider whether all of the people whose opinions you may be concerned about ever come to you asking for guidance about their lives?
Think about it for a moment. Who are “they” to begin with? Family, friends, neighbors, people who live in your part of the world? And what do “they” think? What if they told you they think the direction you are contemplating is fantastic and wonderful? What then? Would you then have a new worry about success or failure? Would you worry about whether you were good enough in your field of service?
You see, all of the above–what people think, what you think, success, failure, being good enough–it all comes from the passion you feel about what you are doing, being, creating, and expressing from your heart. That is all that matters.
Suppose you love to teach children. Does this mean that you need to receive the award for most popular teacher every year or a Ph.D. in education to make a true and lasting difference for the children? Don’t people and children feel your care? Yes, they do. Don’t you feel it when someone truly cares about you? Yes, you do.
Do they need a certain title or a certain appearance to touch your heart and brighten your day? No, they don’t. What matters most is purity of motive. Moreover, that is what you really feel coming from other people, their motives.
If your motive is pure and from your heart, there is no such thing as failure. Whether a business succeeds or a financial venture profits has nothing to do with the goodness in your heart or with your true worth.
No one gave you this goodness and no one can ever take it away.
The feelings you have about yourself are completely based on how you view yourself. To transform your self-view to match your ideal, you can come to trust and rely on the process of receiving the higher perspective from God through your writings.
Trusting the Process
It does take time and many small experiences to build that trust. As you experience receiving new realizations, support, and the pure views you can have about yourself along with how to integrate these pure views, you will come to find that this process is so pure, and so priceless.
It is important for you to realize that your current level of consciousness, those views that you currently hold about yourself truly cannot be transformed at the same level of awareness that you have now. If that were possible, then you would have already transformed your views of self, and you would feel pure self-love and acceptance.
To receive the higher view or perspective, all you need to do is write from your heart and ask your Higher Self to give it to you. Then, re-read what you receive.
How to Get Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend – Sacrifice, Compromise, and Change
Within a relationship two of the most important things that go hand-in-hand is sacrifice and compromise because they are the most important parts within the relationship. If you really want to know the answer to the question, “how can I get back together with my ex boyfriend?”
These are two of the most important thing you should keep in mind at all times. There is no simple remedy for a broken heart, the advice that you find in this article can make it easier for you to give your man a reason to want you back.
Even though this question keeps popping up in your mind, “how can I get my boyfriend back?” You must consider the question what cause the failure in the relationship in the first place. If you are willing to do this you can remove some of the stress and tension which may have caused the breakup in the first place.
Well, what are some ways to get my ex back, you maybe asking?
If your relationship has failed, that is a sign that something has went completely wrong. If he left you, there are a couple reasons you might want to consider: One, if your relationship with him has become boring you did not put enough into it, or maybe your relationship with him was crowded and you were putting too much of yourself into it.
Regardless of the situation, either one of these could have caused the relationship to fail. If you find yourself asking this question over and over in your mind, you need to pinpoint exactly which one was the cause of the breakup that way you will know how to pursue him.
It really does not matter which of the two situations cause the split up, what it boils down to is something you did or did not do. Looking at it this way may seem kind of harsh, but that is usually the way it works. If he broke up with you it is because of something you did or did not do and that is what drove him away. So what do you do now, and how do you figure out a way to get him back? The first thing you want to do is change whatever it was that caused him to break up with you in the first place.
Here is a tip, take some time out and take a long hard look at the situation you are in. Ask yourself this question, what was it that caused the breakup? Another thing you want to look at is, out of the two probable causes, which one was your fault and which one was not your fault?
If it was something out of your control you need to rule it out, focus on the things you can control and be willing to make a change. If you find that it is something that you could have controlled and you feel that you are responsible for it there is a real good chance of him taking you back if you are willing to make a change. Only you can decide to make the change and if you are there could be happy days ahead.
Simply knowing, “how to get back with your ex boyfriend?” is not enough. It will not happen unless you are willing to make a change and take action right now!