Making your ex jealous is one of the fastest ways to get the attention of your boyfriend after a break up. The best time to do this is immediately after you break up, when he is actually keeping tabs on you. You might think he has moved on to greener pastures and done with your relationship, however he is in fact keeping an eye on the way you cope with the break up. He wants to see you depressed: it gives him that ego boost he’s looking for and shows him he’s still loved.
There are several ways to make your ex jealous. However before you do, you should be warned that this strategy can at times be dangerous. Making use jealousy as a means to force your way back into a relationship that your ex boyfriend actually doesn’t want will simply result to another break up. Remember, your ultimate aim is to get back your boyfriend… not cause him pain and hurt to the extent that he can’t forgive or forget what you did.
The following methods can be used to breed jealousy in the mind of your boyfriend, but bear in mind that you don’t want to play any major games with him. Head games, mind games, or any manner of manipulation of his emotions is going to cause dislike that you are going to have to contend with later on.
Method One: Kicking Your Break Up To the Curb – This is actually the best technique. It involves moving on with your life right away and stepping over your break up as if it never happened. Don’t fight your boyfriend right after he breaks up with you. In fact, agree with him and walk away smiling. Actually go all-out here, and in fact put your ex totally out of your mind. You should party as if you’ve been freed from prison because the more fun you have, and the more visual it is, the more you will get back to him. He may even try to contact you or call. Don’t answer. Similarly, don’t call your ex, text, or email.
This method is going to blow your ex-boyfriend completely away if done right. Your reaction is going to be the complete opposite of what he expected: rather than sitting at home crying, you hang out with friends having a nice time. Seeing this is going to right away make your ex jealous.
Method Two: Creating a Group Dynamic – Hang out with a group of guys and girls. Scenario like this is going to play out lots of different ways in his head. Your ex boyfriend is going to wonder who you’re going to meet, or worse, who will try and meet you. This is going to bother your ex boyfriend so much more than he thinks it will, and hearing about it and seeing it will drive him nuts.
Method Three: Using Another Guy to Make Your Ex Jealous – This is the most dangerous technique; however it will as well cause the most jealousy. Your ex boyfriend has broken up with you, which means you’re free to date and see whomever you like. But, you as well should not push your ex boyfriend past the extent of jealousy to a point where he doesn’t even want you any longer. This implies that you can flirt, talk and have fun with other guys – however you can’t actually begin dating other guys except you’ are ready for the outcome.
Do NOT attempt to date your ex’s friends. This is a bad move at all times. Your ex is going to dislike you for disconnecting him from whatever friend you are dating, and he is going to mound on the other annoyance he has at his friend’s betrayal. The only way to make it right is avoiding it from the beginning.