I have friends who come to me when they are in tough situation for advice. One of the most common things I hear is that they want to find out how to get back with an ex after they have recently experienced a breakup.
All breakups are complicated; however some are particularly hard on both people. What is good about that is it proves both partners still deeply care for each other. There are ways to get your ex on good terms again and then you can go from there, but there is no magical way to get your ex to come back to you overnight.
You must be extremely enduring when coping with an ex; there are lots of hurt feeling and emotions involved. You should distance yourself for a while in order to safely reconnect with your ex, give them the space they require to calm down before you get in touch with them with any kind of conversation. And at the time you feel like you are prepared for those conversations ensure you don’t say anything about your relationship.
If you can prove to your ex that you are mature and capable of handling this, and you can show that you are ready to take another shot at the relationship, there are pretty good chances that the two of you are going to get back together. It does take time, and there is a lot more information out there that you will have to look over first, if you really want to know how to get back with an ex.
The Magic of Making Up by T.W. Jackson
Widely considered THE authority when it comes to repairing a break up, T.W.’s approach is geared toward obtaining instant results.